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Monday, March 18, 2013

Bags of Gold...and Reality TV.

So there's a Master and 3 servants...one servant was given one bag of gold, the second servant was given 2 bags, and the last servant was given 5 bags of gold, each according to his ability. The Master was going on a journey, and left the gold with his servants- entrusting them with HIS wealth. (Book of Matthew)


Here's what happened next:
The servant with one bag of gold buried his. 
The servant with two bags worked and gained two more bags.
The servant with five bags worked hard and doubled his bags.

Most of you probably know the rest of the story....
The Master told the second and third they had done well. He probably gave them a job and a bonus.
The first servant, the scared one who buried the bag in his backyard, was scolded. The Master called him lazy and gave the man with ten bags his measly one bag.

This was our lesson yesterday in Sunday school. We had a great discussion about it. It really stirred me, and made me think. 

One friend said, "Wasn't that punishment a little harsh for the man who buried it? I mean, at least he didn't lose it all!"
(My thought was...couldn't the Master have given the bag to the guy who only had two...I mean throw the guy a bone...)

Another friend explained it like this....those bags could represent something else besides money. Let's say it was a plot of land. A man gives you a plot of his land for a year. He comes back after a year and you've done NOTHING.  NADA. ZILCH. You haven't watered it. You haven't weeded it. It's full of weeds, dried out dirt, trash from the nearby road, and anthills. The man is furious. He can't believe you wasted a whole year. You could've done so much with that land. You could've planted something! You could've leased it to someone else and made a profit! You could have even let someone use it so it would at least have been productive! Nothing! Lazy! Terrible!

Here's a point for discussion: Notice in the parable that the Master gave the servants bags of gold based on their abilities to handle it. So maybe I haven't experienced great "worldly wealth-dollar bills" because I can't handle it well? Thoughts? Ideas? Maybe I shouldn't even think that way- it's up to God. Or maybe I haven't always taken the opportunities and listened to what God wanted me to do!
You know that saying..."To whom much is given, much is expected."

Or maybe you could think of the bags of gold as something else...potential.
This makes me think about something I tell my students often (and I have said this MANY times over my teaching career.) You have to use what God has given you. The saddest thing to waste is your mind. The most frustrating student is the one who has the ability but won't put in the effort! You know what I mean....there's a million ways to say it. 

My friend Gavin was teaching yesterday and he shared a staggering statistic from a magazine he found. I won't quote it directly and I don't put too much weight into these surveys- but I do think this was probably pretty true. It said that on average most Americans only spent 7 minutes a day doing some kind of Volunteerism or Religious Activity.  Made me think about how I spend my time. Am I using my God-given gifts and talents as God intended? Am I allowing God to use me as He sees fit? Am I wasting time and energy doing things that do not further his kingdom? Or am I wasting time doing things that are self-defeating or don't benefit my health or my family's happiness? The answer is yes and no. I think we have to give ourselves credit. Baby steps people. I do good things. And I watch a little too much reality TV sometimes. We can't all go to Zimbabwe and build orphanages. But what I CAN do is be more INTENTIONAL with my time. I can stop wasting time doing things like....
WORRYING about the future.
BEING UPSET about the past.
STRESSING about today.

My goal is to do one thing each day that is more intentional...and just keep going. Hopefully I will have so many intentional things that they'll push those other things out of the way. 

So go and have an intentional day...and yes, I will still watch my reality TV tonight.

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Ever felt Unglued?

Happy March, folks....
Time is flying by. Easter is right around the corner, then Spring Break, then the countdown to Summer Break is on. Since I am a teacher...I have a soft spot for the last one of course.

As the windy, unpredictable weather of March comes and goes...I find myself snuggling up with good books- and like I said in my last post I would be giving you some more book recommendations. 

My latest good read came to me while looking through the shelves at the library. I actually liked the title first. Then when I saw the cover I knew this book was probably speaking my language. I was in the "Self-Help" section...Yes, I said "Self-Help". I used to think that was something I wouldn't read but I have found SOME books to be very encouraging. Lately I have found myself needing more motivation and encouragement. It seems to be very easy to be my "own worst critic" and be too hard on myself. Anyone relate? As a working mom and wife, I tend to try and juggle lots of hats in the air. I then find myself falling short of my own expectations (of course- who doesn't?) and begin to struggle with self-doubt. So...I landed on this book...



Whoa...this girl is good...and I love the cover. I have SO felt like screaming into my purse. She has written other books, and I WILL be checking them out this weekend. First, let me give you my little review.  Lysa TerKeurst is a mom of 5 (yes, 5) children and faces many of the same fears and insecurities I have. She talks in an open and honest way that really makes you feel like she's just a girlfriend you could chat with...
Here's a quick run-down, in my own words, of what she discusses on dealing with emotions and feelings:
Women who explode then shame themselves
Women who explode then shame others
Women who stuff (their emotions) and build barriers
Women who stuff (their emotions) but collect retaliation rocks

So here's a really good quote from the book for you:
"Feelings are indicators, not dictators." Lysa TerKeurst
Love. It. Writing it on an index card tonight.

Relate to anything there? I am telling you- she is good. There were times while reading this book I thought she was reading my mind. But the best part of all? She uses biblical principles throughout to teach and reinforce what she's saying. So she's not just blowing hot air, people. 
Here are some other titles she's written: 
Made to Crave
Becoming More Than a Good Bible Study Girl

(I am not getting paid by her- just a fan of this book.)

So maybe you have it all together. Maybe you never feel discouraged, overworked, insecure, overwhelmed, or compare yourself to others. Maybe you never raise your voice at your children, ever. Maybe you always cook balanced, nutritious meals from your fully organic garden in your manicured yard. Well...if so- I am proud and give me a call. I need some advice. If you are anything like me, you might just like this book.

So that's all for this time friends...hoping you find a purse big enough to scream in...if you need it.